Online Love and relationships---myth or reality?  For all the single men who are searching for a soulmate, relationship, a friend online that leads to more or true love you need to remember to be yourself when writing your personality profile and compatibility profile. Listen up guys, women can smell a fake from the beginning. I am sure many men think they are real "ladies men" and can win over any woman they choose but you are only kidding yourself. Be real!  Write about who you really are, your likes and dislikes but don't stress out on these, write about your interests, activities you really enjoy and what you do in your free time. Do not hit on your career strongly because she will interpret this as "you are one dimensional" with your job being first in your life. When you do connect with a lady and the two of you exchange a few emails or go right to the first phone call remember the Golden Rule for winning a lady's interest. What is this Golden Rule you ask? Listen!  Let her control the conversation because believe me guys she is going to be using the "secret code" all women are born with to decide whether you are sincere and for real or just another loser. Don't try and understand or figure this code out because it is a secret only women know so be yourself and answer her questions honestly even if your answer does not make you sound like superman. To find love and romance online is not a mystery. Where many men and women mess up is writing a personality profile and a compatibility profile that is not even remotely a true representation of who they really are and what they are really searching for in a relationship or soulmate. Keep it real and be yourself. If you do this finding your soulmate when using online love and relationships sites is really very interesting and exciting. Try these sites to start your search for love and romance online Yahoo! Personals